When AI Helped Me Reconnect With My Stepdaughter

Allen Bauer
2 min readApr 24, 2023

In today’s fast-paced world, we often hear about artificial intelligence (AI) and its potential to revolutionize industries, create new job opportunities, and change the way we live. While AI has undoubtedly made strides in areas like content creation, website optimization, data research, and customer engagement, it can sometimes feel like the human touch is getting lost amidst all the hype.

But my experience with AI was different. It gave me something invaluable — a chance to reconnect with my loved one. This is the story of how AI helped me write a song about the pain of losing contact with my stepdaughter in Russia, and how that song brought us back together.

As an online business owner, I frequently use AI to manage various aspects of my work. However, the real magic happened when I used AI as a personal therapist to help me express the deep-rooted pain I felt from losing contact with my young stepdaughter, Ariana, whom I raised from the age of 8 months.

The process wasn’t as simple as asking ChatGPT to write a song for me. It required soul searching, introspection, and multiple iterations to get the lyrics and sentiment just right. Finally, when the song was complete, I felt a sense of peace. I still longed to reconnect with Ariana, but I had hope that, someday, we would be together again.

What happened next was nothing short of a miracle. I posted the song and its backstory on my blog and shared it on Facebook. A friend of my ex saw the post and reached out to my ex, who then read the song and contacted me. She told me that she didn’t realize how much love I still had for Ariana and how beautiful the song was.

Since then, I have been able to reconnect with Ariana through TikTok. It’s a small step, but one that I will cherish forever.

So, while AI continues to transform businesses and spark debates about its impact on jobs and society, let us not forget its potential to touch lives in a deeply personal way. My experience with AI has shown me that, when used with empathy and creativity, it can help us navigate the complexities of human emotions and bridge gaps that once seemed insurmountable.

In the end, it’s not just about AI making us overnight millionaires or revolutionizing industries. It’s about the profound ways in which it can bring people together, heal emotional wounds, and, ultimately, make the world a better place.

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